So this is a spin off from this other thread talking about a husband viewing porn
Got me thinking…why do they do it? Is there sosmething missing from thw couple’s sex life, is it something that goes deeper than just sex?
I would feel seriously hurt if i found my husband watching porn… Tell me what u want and we will work on it…fantasy or whatever it takes… And this goes both ways for both husband and wife.
Whats the need for porn when u are HAPPILY married… ? Shed some light on this peepee holders. Us wee wee possessing species would like to better understamd the thinking behinf this rather irkh act
(ps)… I am aware that some women are also into is kinda stuff but its not so common…
I can understand teens and unmarried guys watching Porn… :no: Despicable as it is it’s got it’s market purpose as it were…
But why the heck would a guy get married if all he wanted was the bedroom action… you can get that pretty much anywhere these days but it takes a real man to settle down and make a fammily and keep things set.
Besides a Wife is more than a sex object… hell for a start she is mother to your children but also she is your perfect partner. Anyone who understands the human pysche and the need for teamwork would understand that theres nothing more awesome on the whole damn planet then a good happy fammily.
A married friend of mine would watch porn whenever his wife got pregnant and bedroom action was missing for long periods of time.... But i never got that... How iswatching sex and having sex the same?!
I dont get it. Could it be in the sagging breasts of ure wife who has had ure kids....the cellulite in the butt... Porn stars are so firm and tight. Does it have to do with the looks then?
I don't get it either but I hear this from guys.... that guys are visual creatures. They don't make a emotional connection to it like us woman do. Most say it has nothing to do with the relationship with their wife.
Hey now not all men are such visual creatures… some of us are highly emotional and just as imaginative as any Woman if not more so… you’ve really hurt my feelings now…
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Okay while we chaps dont throw up as much drama as ladies we can be torn apart and break out with just as much emotional outrage we are by no means all visual creatures but I totally understand your point about aj kal de munday…
But then agian this concept of Porn is not new it has always been out there but I think the past does not compare with the demand and supply these days…
That said just becuase theres a 24 carat gold bullion block in a pile of manure does not mean everyones going to snatch it… some just dont go that low.
I didn't mean all guys .... but most guys that I have talked to about this subject don't correlate watching porn with their relationship with their wives.
But the wives see that as sign of disrespect, not able to satisfy their needs, dissatisfaction with their own bodies, aging, lack of religious values, not being able to be a good father, lack of morality, etc.
It's not a question about liking porn or not... We all know women wouldn't like it if their husbands watch it. Based on that, I think if someone truly loves his wife, he should make the sacrifice and say goodbye to his Jenna Jameson collection forever.
To OP.....you can't really expect some married man to post here admitting he watches porn and then explain it to you..
Hahaha theres that too... but seriously if guys want to be married then consider a lot of the sacrifices the Woman makes especially in our cutlure, and then for a guy to give up a bad habbit and get something better whats the problem...? :)
