well let me give you a little bit of background on me.
My father had a heart attack last year…usse pehle I was dead set against getting married until I completed my master’s degree, but when that happened. My mom said m really worried about you main tumhe kahin set karma chahti hun etc. so I said fine let’s start the search then. So then there were lots of rishtas and stuff…koi mujhe nahin pasand aata tha aur jo mujhe thorra acha lagta tha somehow it wouldn’t work out. But I never had a strong feeling for anyone. Well anyways about in November of last year I went to visit my cousin-sister… her husband I guess observed me really closely and he says to my mom that..isse ghar ka kaam nahin aata uske ilaava nature ki bohot achi hain aunty m going to Pakistan in December mujhe apni beti ki details batayein aur batayein kis qisam ka larrka chaahiye aapko—main chahta hun yeh larrki meri family mein jaiye. So he took pix of me to pak…over there his on BIL took a liking to my photo and said I want this girl for my nephew….well my cousin-sister’s hubby came back to usa n gave my mom the proposal of his BIL’s nephew(now my hubby)…my mom called my saasu ma and asked her to send her son’s pix…as soon as that pic came I was drawn to it like I had never been drawn to anyone before…even though the picture was blurry and I cudnt see his face properly cuz he had his face covered with his mouth (unke baithne ka andaaz hi aisa hai) well then my saasu ma invited my mother to my jeyth’s wedding in march. So we made preps to go to pak for my jeyth’s wedding and had decided to take that opportunity to see my hubby. I landed in Pak on morning March 15th, that was the first tyme I laid eyes on ym hubby and saw him clearly…and I knew from inside that I was right he is the one I’m meant to be with…later that evening my saasu ma gave formal proposal…my mom had already asked me and I had said yes so iss tarha se rishta pakka hogaya…and hubby n I had our nikkah on march 24th just 9 days later
Itni lambi story bataane k makhsad yeh hai k you may wanna say yes to everyone…but there will just one for who you will feel an extreme pull towards…wait for that and if you cant wait then phir main kya bolun see what a lot of ppl see that larrke ki fam background kya hai kya pardhaii ki huwi hai ussne kitna established hai etc. ]
btw i'm 24 and got married this march
aww, congratulations :)