I have normally been considered a strong or lets say controlled girl when it comes to relations. I have never involved my self in any kind of affairs. I have had close friends & have also had crushes but something serious never struck me.
But lately i am getting this feeling of longing. Is it natural in the early twenties when all you hear is “When are U getting married?” “Oh U know, falaan got married” etc. Every other person i know is getting married and the wedding forum just makes me more inclined.
Now coming to the point, I have been in touch with a couple of friends & a few other male colleagues. Recently, a friend proposed to me. I am having a little very little feeling for him but i am still confused is it just the feeling of longing or the fact that i hear wedding bells everywhere or just natural inclination in early twenties or at this age you just tend to be very emotional?
It may be very odd for some of you but i am having this longing feeling for all the very candidates of marriage in my life and at the same time i am unable to say yes to anyone. I am even unable to describe the state of confusion i am passing through. Who do i say yes too? People always say that its your gut feeling or inner feeling for some one that makes you say yes. But i keep having this Yes feeling for all the people who show interest recently. I am the type of person who doesnt easily resolve for some one but look at me all confused about every single suitable candidate. I dont get the NO feeling and neither do i get the YES feeling. I some times get the vibe that may be i am feeling positive about some one or this friend of mine due to this feeling of loneliness or longiness?
What happened with you guys when you were to be married?
