X2, you completely ruined the seriousness of my problem. I dont believe a word of your story. 
well let me give you a little bit of background on me.
My father had a heart attack last year…usse pehle I was dead set against getting married until I completed my master’s degree, but when that happened. My mom said m really worried about you main tumhe kahin set karma chahti hun etc. so I said fine let’s start the search then. So then there were lots of rishtas and stuff…koi mujhe nahin pasand aata tha aur jo mujhe thorra acha lagta tha somehow it wouldn’t work out. But I never had a strong feeling for anyone. Well anyways about in November of last year I went to visit my cousin-sister… her husband I guess observed me really closely and he says to my mom that..isse ghar ka kaam nahin aata uske ilaava nature ki bohot achi hain aunty m going to Pakistan in December mujhe apni beti ki details batayein aur batayein kis qisam ka larrka chaahiye aapko—main chahta hun yeh larrki meri family mein jaiye. So he took pix of me to pak…over there his on BIL took a liking to my photo and said I want this girl for my nephew….well my cousin-sister’s hubby came back to usa n gave my mom the proposal of his BIL’s nephew(now my hubby)…my mom called my saasu ma and asked her to send her son’s pix…as soon as that pic came I was drawn to it like I had never been drawn to anyone before…even though the picture was blurry and I cudnt see his face properly cuz he had his face covered with his mouth (unke baithne ka andaaz hi aisa hai) well then my saasu ma invited my mother to my jeyth’s wedding in march. So we made preps to go to pak for my jeyth’s wedding and had decided to take that opportunity to see my hubby. I landed in Pak on morning March 15th, that was the first tyme I laid eyes on ym hubby and saw him clearly…and I knew from inside that I was right he is the one I’m meant to be with…later that evening my saasu ma gave formal proposal…my mom had already asked me and I had said yes so iss tarha se rishta pakka hogaya…and hubby n I had our nikkah on march 24th just 9 days later
Itni lambi story bataane k makhsad yeh hai k you may wanna say yes to everyone…but there will just one for who you will feel an extreme pull towards…wait for that and if you cant wait then phir main kya bolun see what a lot of ppl see that larrke ki fam background kya hai kya pardhaii ki huwi hai ussne kitna established hai etc. ]
btw i'm 24 and got married this march
aww, congratulations :)
Re: Am i just passing through a phase?
LOL X2 at last you made me read your post from A to Z for the first time... hehehe.
Its not true right??? lol
Re: Am i just passing through a phase?
When it happens it will happen.. You will feel it's right ..
Not married yet and in my late twenties but somethign makes me feel that the right guy will come inshALLAH
Pointless worrying about it na
Re: Am i just passing through a phase?
men are ****. true story.
Re: Am i just passing through a phase?
Do istikara for 7 days for each proposal. You heart Shoud guide then on
Re: Am i just passing through a phase?
argh i feele the sameeeeeeeee EVRYONE literallay arnd me is getting married.while one prt of my heart says urghhh its so totally rong n women shld bcome something bfr getting married the other part of me goes awwww at the pixs posted on facebook n corrupts my mind.in such a situation u view everyone as ur "potential one" (i have a steady bf i dunt do tht but i know my frnds who go thru the same do so) its completely normal n i being a very practical person when it comews o relationship wld say be practical if a gud guy comes ur way n there is compatibilty getinto the relationship along wid studying n when its time get married..but dontttt compromise ur studies!!!!!!