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You’ll all be so busy throughout the wedding you’ll hardly get time to see each other.. it’s chaotic! Be grateful that she’s coming to be a part of your wedding! 
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yes you should be grateful that she is making an effort and coming all the way from England to attend the wedding.
she won't be living in your house for forever. she is just a guest who will stay for few days , it's not you'll have to share everything with her for the rest of your life.
have a big heart girl after all you are getting married . marriage requires many & much more adjustments than this one.
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and yes CONGRATULATIONS on getting married 
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As someone who likes their own space I can see where you are coming from. But as others have said you will be so busy that you will hardly notice her presence. Consider that she is coming from so far away to attend your wedding and for such a short period of time anyway. Enjoy your time with her.
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Congrats!
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Congrats and yes .. I think it will be nice to have someone share the excitement with you
Ps Very sweet of your reli to come see you from so far and pay for the ticket to come over too..
If y varies inversely as x, and y=secrets when x=happy times, find x when z = bedroom sharing
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While I understand issues of privacy, I do think you might be over reacting this time.
She is coming all this way to be there for you on your special day. The least you can do is share your space with her for just a little while.
What you give is what you get...do this for her now...you never know what she might do for you tomorrow.
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everyone says your wedding is a time that is fun but from what I've seen (I'm not married) it is THE MOST STRESSFUL TIME EVER! this is a small inconvenience and I know you like your space but you'll be so busy and stressed over other things you won't even notice this. Don't think about it too much and when she comes to let that annoyance take over you because then you will focus on that when you should be focusing on how happy you are :)
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I disagree with everyone. It's YOUR wedding, it's YOUR special time, it's YOUR space. Tell whoever is in charge to make other arrangements for her and that these will be your LAST few days in your current home, you'd like to spend them with your space intact. It's not at all silly or ungrateful.
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Oh comon be hospitable.
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I can understand wanting to have your room to yourself in the final days...and it'll make it easy for both of you. in the time before the wedding, you may wake up in the middle of the night rushing to try your wedding dress on to make sure it still fits and u didn't gain the extra 20 lbs u just dreamt about. orr you might find yourself waking up randomly and wanting to cry on your mom's shoulders or flip through old pic albums of your family or anything silly like that. esp. if you're moving far away. if she's the type of friend you can share this excitement/nervousness with...if she's the type who won't mind staying up with you going through the guest list last minute to make sure you invited everyone then great! but if not, it may be an issue for both of you.
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Then you have her sleep in the spare room. And if you don't have one, you make up the living room so she can sleep there. What's the big deal? And if you're that uncomfortable ask your cousins to take her just so that you guys all get to see you in your dress for the first time together.
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She prolly just wants to spend time with the dulhan.