Re: Am I being oversenstive?
^ Exactly! :)
1) Give the dresses from the goodness of your heart. After all, you are their phuppo. And if they wear the dresses to your wedding....GREAT! If they don't.......they'll have something nice to wear for future special occasions.
2) Try to (nicely) ask your bhabi to get the girls to wear the dresses on at least one of your wedding celebration days (mehendi, valima, shadi, etc). And some flattering and buttering can help.
3) In the end.....even if they don't wear the clothes......be happy that at least your nieces were a part of your wedding and were able to share in your joy no matter what clothes they are wearing.