am i an abcd?

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@stoppit

Exactly. People do change but let’s look at the dialogue. He didn’t say ‘I’ve changed my views’, he said ‘Before, you weren’t mrs. so and so’.

And that is actually the same view a lot of Pakistani guys have. They are attracted to one thing but that wouldn’t fly after marriage because then other men might be attracted to that too. Basically saying that the only reason she dressed that way was not because that was her style or what she liked or that she did it for herself but she purely did it to attract men and therefore she shouldn’t now. He’s basically insinuating his wife was slutty before marriage.. so what the hell? why marry her if you had that opinion.

Good point, I was speaking in general terms and did not see the clip. I am horribly terribly allergic to desi dramas and soap operas, if someone ever needs to get info out of me, tie me up and make me watch pakistani dramas or yank or aussie soaps, I will admit to anything to get out of it

But yes based on the scenario you have posted, the dude is a jackass, needs to be wrapped in a burlap sack with 23 rats and then the sack gently beaten with sticks for 90 seconds and then stop for 2 minutes then gently beaten again for 30 seconds again repeat 5 times and roll sahibzada home..

I will now leave this thread since people are discussing the characters, and just reading that is giving me palpitations.