Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy's English speaking skills?

[Reha]

Re: Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy’s English speaking skills?

I don’t think grammar is the real issue here…its just a “bahana” to get rid of him.

He seems arrogant, self centered and very much in denial.

That being said - I do not think grammar and accents should be a criteria in a partner. Its a superficial thing - similar to weight, complexion and other equally unimportant things.

@PyariCgudia

He would be the father if your kids and passing off that English to them, so yes it is important. You should talk to him on the phone at least once instead of bluntly asking him because our men never like being challenged. Their less than adequate gonads blow up at the thought someone of the weaker sex could challenge them. By the way I think there is a weird trend amongst Pakistanis in the easy including those in UAE to write in broken English even though they can put together a proper English document for work.

PCG - accents and grammar are not hereditary woman.