Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy's English speaking skills?

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Re: Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy’s English speaking skills?

@fabled

Its ok if you object on someone’s English speaking skills. But if you extend it to the point where you start assessing someone’s smartness and intelligence based on how good or bad English he speaks then i don’t have any words to convey how weird this statement is.

OP, I don’t think you should proceed with this guy because today you are finding his English speaking skills awful to the point of embarrassment. Tomorrow, you will find many other things in him which will make you feel embarrassed and the poor soul will keep on feeling insulted and you two will keep going into arguments. Spare him please.

This reminds of my 12 year old neighbor kid who get’s embarrassed when his family speaks Urdu with him in public or anyplace except home.