Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy's English speaking skills?

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Re: Am I a horrible person for inquiring about the guy’s English speaking skills?

@PyariCgudia

I agree with stork. I’ve come across a lot of guys who are not engineers but work in lower IT positions and then say they’re computer engineers or my favorite - paralegal posing as a lawyer. If his English is poor he probably is not in the position he says he is in.** Furthermore if he was doing ok and that smart he could get hired by a Canadian or American company and would not need to come to Canada through marriage**. Key: smart immigrants figure out how to get here on their own.

Its ok if you object on someone’s English speaking skills. But if you extend it to the point where you start assessing someone’s smartness and intelligence based on how good or bad English he speaks then i don’t have any words to convey how weird this statement is.

OP, I don’t think you should proceed with this guy because today you are finding his English speaking skills awful to the point of embarrassment. Tomorrow, you will find many other things in him which will make you feel embarrassed and the poor soul will keep on feeling insulted and you two will keep going into arguments. Spare him please.