What if you were a guy who was losing hair and your wife asked you to maybe try doing something about it while there is still hope ? I don’t know, use Rogaine or get a hair transplant or something.
You know that she still loves you a lot and is attracted to you, but maybe it would be nicer if you didn’t have a chrome dome.
Is this a sensitive topic to bring up with guys? Will you get hurt if you were asked? I know girls are super sensitive about their looks, case in point: bring up her weight and you’ll know what I’m talking about.
Since a lot of people here seem to think guys are more levelheaded, shouldn’t they be able to take constructive criticism better or the topic of hair loss is a no no?
If the couple is comfortable with each other i don't see anything wrong if the wife brings up this thing. Afterall its important that both are attracted to each other.
Btw, i have seen some guys who start loosing hair in their late 20's but they still look good because they style it well. So it really depends on what you make out of what you have. lol.
Zareen, true that. I know someone who is 25 and losing hair... and it's easier to style when there is some hair at least. What if it's all gone and nothing to style anymore :(
Zareen, true that. I know someone who is 25 and losing hair... and it's easier to style when there is some hair at least. What if it's all gone and nothing to style anymore :(
Well if all hair gone then there has to be a reason for it, he shud c a doc for it for sure.
no it's true...some people look better with a tind like Vin Diesel and Timothy Olyphant.
Maybe because they chopped it all off? So that's the way to go instead of keeping it half bald? You know what I mean, leaving a chrome domed center with hair surrounding it?
You're no help NomiCA bro. "depends on the person involved" is the easy way out. I need to know what the majority thinks. There is no litmus test for me to see if this guy would be okay with the topic of hair or the lack thereof itself even though he's pretty open to taking criticism otherwise... but there are certain topics that could go in the 'untouchables' and I wanted to know if this was one. It's like the topic of weight with women.
I can only find out if I ask him or bring it up and that might be too late. I don't want to come off as superficial either, but it would be nice to see if he can do something about it.
Look....if he is 'your guy'......you keep quiete untill you get comfortable...... when u start living with him...you will get to find out what he thinks about baldness........so when u are comfy with him (like totally).....then u can bring it up.............its safe to keep chup for now.....
I think you can probably talk about it later once you are closer to him. If you guys arent married yet, its probably not a good idea to bring it up right now.
you don't talk to a guy about his hair or his wife unless you are his mom, or you are sleeping with him. in the latter case, it is merely a matter of timing the discussion.
girls these days.. jeez.. asking for advice on manipulation?! where are your native skills?
for guys hair or losing hair is a sensitive topic, i'm with Reha, don't be critical of him in that aspect. i just remember watching that episode of sex and the city where carrie makes fun of the fact that her boyfriend was using rogaine and losing his hair, he got really angry.
Don't bring it up now and if you do bring it up later, be very careful how you word what you say so you don't hurt his feelings.
imagine a part of you that you're really sensitive about and then having him be critical of it or saying you need to get it fixed. "get a nose job, breast augmentation surgery, lose weight"
I think it is a sensitive topic… after you’ve asked him to try something NO matter how much you tell him that you love him and are attracted to him, at the back of his mind he’ll always think you’re not and that’s why you brought it up. If you put yourself in his place… you’d probably feel the same too.
