Alopecia and Guys

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what a shamelessly liberated guy, i bet he had lots of opresan.

and on top of that he names himself “i’m hot op.”

whatever ugly taklu :mad:

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opresan :hehe: i’m hot op, alright i fixed the spelling :P^^why do you hate tind guy from the mummy :konfused:

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Geez! what’s with all the gender bias on this forum. You know what else I can do that’s not native to me?
picks her nose and chases you around with boogers on my finger :chilly:

I think I’ll listen to what everyone else said especially since the guy is already pretty concerned about it and keeps bringing it up and I assure him it’s okay with me. Now he will just think I was lying , which I wasn’t.
A hair transplant would be soooooooo cool though.
But I’m staying chup.

Maybe I should feed him Propecia pills saying they’re vitamin pills or something. :hmmm:

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Alopecia is different from male pattern baldness, it can usually be cured so I don't see why you can't bring it up with the guy and tell him to get treatment. Hereditary baldness has no cure so if you brought that up then you're basically suggesting the guy to go for a hair transplant which some guys are more sensitive about.

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really informative, didn’t know there was a difference, so she should tell him to take the pills? :hmmm:

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well I think he should have been more concerned, especially if its about looks and harmless medically. I wouldnt like it fairly if any one/ someone special would pin point me like that. If you love me you better accept me as a total package. if you think something like half bald or tind or tidd bothers you better not move forward.

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You're right actually. Since the guy in question is losing it at 25 and there are other cases in the family, it's more than likely genetic.
I should have been more specific I guess... reason why I gave different examples was I wanted to know what the majority thought about bringing up the topic itself regardless of the actual reason behind the hair loss.

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Hey mirage!
actually the issue wasn't about acceptance and moving forward with the relationship. Forget aesthetics, even if God forbid this guy was missing an arm or a limb, I'd still accept him :)
Thanks for your input though.
I think I know what I'm going to do though.

My excuse for bringing up this retarded topic was since my household comprises solely of females, and never having to live with a guy before, I kind of wonder how their thought process works.
Thankfully, guy seem to be way less complicated beings than us women which is making the whole get-to-know process for me a little easier.

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Well the reason is kind of important, if it's a medical problem then it is a no brainer, you tell the guy to get treatment. If it's just natural baldness then generally (from balding guys I know) guys just take it in their stride and learn to live with it, telling them to go and get treatment or hair transplant is like telling them they're not good enough anymore.