Re: allowing to hurt!
alright that makes sense, you fix yourself and realize all that you do wrong, self improvement happens, but the other person is still clueless about what flaws they might have that might be causing some of the problems or the pain, does she just let him/her hurt her, wouldn’t she get desensitized to the pain after a while and along with that whatever love/caring she might have felt? human beings can only take so much before they become numb