Allowed in Islam ?

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Guys i am going to get married in next month so now i just want to know that is
licking or oral sex or oral stimulation between husband and wife is allowed in islam.

Plz give me any authentic link.

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I'll leave the production of a link to someone else.

As this topic has been discussed many times here before, there has been a split in opinion whether or not the practice cunnilingus and fellatio are allowed. If i am not mistaken, more of the Ullama are united against such practice than those who consider it makruh.

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and aren’t ua lready married?

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=224249
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=228640

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*BHAI SAHIB SIRF ITNA HI KEHNA HAI KEH JIS ZUBAN SE ALLAH KA NAAM LIYA JAYE, JIS ZUBAN SE US KA ZIKAR KIYA JAYE AUR JIS ZUBAN SE US KI TAREEF KE KALMAAT ADAA KIYE JAYEIN AUR NAMAZ PARHI JAYE, US ZUBAN KO AYESI JAGAH LAGANA MUNASIB NAHIN HAI, *

YOON SAMAJ LIJIYE KEH AAP KE KAPRON SE KOI NAAPAK CHEEZ CHHOO JAYE TO KIYA AAP NAMAZ PARH SAKEIN GE?

WAISEY IS SAWAL KA JAWAB DALEEL KE SAATH AAP KO KAHEIN BHI NAHIN MILEY GA, YEH TO KHUD PER HAI KEH KON KHUD KO KIS HADD TAK PAKEEZA RAKHTA HAI.

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Bhetareen jawab.

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It's not allowed maybe but your reasoning is faulty. What about JIS DIMAAGH SAY SAY AAP ALLAH KA NAAM SAMAJHTAY HO USI DIMAAGH SAY AAP SEX KAY BARAY MEIN SOCHTAY HO. Weird isn't it.

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*INSAAN APNEY ZEHAN MAIN KISI BURI AUR GHALT SOCH KO ROK NAHIN SAKTA, HATTA KE DORAN-E-NAMAZ BHI BAAZ OQAAT KHAYAALAT AA JATEY HAIN, LAKIN AAP APNI ZUBAN KO TO KISI GHALT KAAM SE ROK SAKTEY HAIN, YA ZUBAN BHI AAP KE IKHTIYAAR MAIN NAHIN HAI, kya khayaal hai. *

MAINE PEHLEY BHI KAHA THA KE YEH APNEY AAP PER HAI KE KOI KHUD KO KITNA PAKEEZA RAKHTA HAI. AUR AGAR NAHIN TO AAP CHAHO TO JIS GHANDGI PER CHAHEY MUN MARO, KISI KO KYA ZAROORAT HAI ROKNEY KI.

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In my opinion it is between husband and wife how they like it.

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Brother you r confusing everyone here we used water for cleanliness. Of course it not allowed reciting Prayers in Najis clothing however after cleaning with water (once Najasitn got removed) prayers are good to go.
like I said it is b/w husband and wife and I am sure Oral sex is not haram it may be Makrooh (prior to move further first get the definition of Makrooh)

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Well Zaid is cautious enough to give any verdict.

Nothing can be declared Haram except explicitly stated in Quran-o-Sunnah and there is no such thing, I have searched almost all the online Islamic sites and except one odd clerics (one of whom even says Nikah is no more if spouses see each other naked) all say it is OK to do, provided you both are comfortable.

Well extremely good answer by light bearer, i am impressed. In this logic you can include eyes, ears whatever. No one will be able to live even.

Aaj kya pakaaya/khaaya
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He is emotionally detering you from it not logically. Logic does not always appeal to conscience does it and vice versa.

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What if during intercourse or foreplay or time of intimacy one’s sperm touches husband’s or wife’s hand than i think both will not touch the Quran in their rest of the life.

Now what you say ?

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this is totally out of line and i think it is not possible to not see your spouse naked.

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Here are few links

http://www.answering-christianity.com/oral_sex.htm
http://www.islamonline.com/cgi-bin/news_service/fatwah_story.asp?service_id=318
http://www.islam-usa.com/s8.html
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?cid=1120469512363&pagename=IslamOnline-English-Cyber_Counselor/CyberCounselingE/CyberCounselingE
http://www.themodernreligion.com/misc/sex/sex-oral.html

here are the ones who disagree but they are also extrapolating the meaning of Ayat 2:223
http://www.understanding-islam.com/related/text.asp?
http://www.central-mosque.com/fiqh/OralSexInIslam.htmtype=discussion&did=185
Islamic invitation Centre

Both the lists keep on going but allowed are in majority, however even disallowed have given it Makrooh but not haram because their is no such clear cut injunction. so if you wanna go ahead, your choice, Islam does not stop you.

The more interesting the debate is about anal sex, i was surprised to know about this debate while searching for the oral sex question as i never even thought that it is okay, however there is a group of Ulema who considered it as allowed but with permission of wife. Most notable of them is the Grand Ayatollah Ali Sistani. another Alim had rejected on natural makeup however has stated that all the four hadith about this type of sex with wife are not authentic enough to apply hurmat.

However i by no means am advocating in its favor as i expect a severe backlash, i was just informing your folks about the presence of debate.

Welcome a new mod
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Good work buddy !! :lajawab:

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Anal sex is allowed in Shia Islam.

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qasim1980, please refrain from writing in upper case/capital and bolding everything. It will not be tolerated in the future.

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thank you.. i was gonna ask him as well.. and plz bro.. red is killing my eyes.. use some other color and please write in proper case coz its easier to read.

thanks.

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Shadi ki tiyarian..! Qiyamat ki tiyarian bhi hain ya nahin?

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oral sex is horrible...there must be some sharam aur hayya between husband and wife..sex between husband and wife should be clean,not such dirty act...huh...
and i want moderators to lock up further threads like tht...

many of confuse physically motivated boys will continue to post such threads....