Re: all these talks of men being polygamous … 
I read it very carefully. You actually did appreciate, hence I did not answer you earlier.
You wrote: “if they really want more than one wife they should be brave enough to confront their family and friends, .”
Basically, If they desire more than one then they should be brave enough not to be afraid of backlash.
(you added sarcastically) “…afterall Gods approval is most important”
Meaning, why worry about backlash, Gods approval should be enough for them.
Now how about you learn to write your thoughts better ways. 
How about I give you another chance to give credit to men who choose not to practice polygamy? Can you do that?