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Yup if its a decision that I will make then sure. Nothing is absolute u know.:)
And Fazeelat may be I like to live my life on my terms wats so wrong in it. Allah can make my heart change directly why it has to be through a husband?.

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I wear hijab because my God told me to, not because my hubby told me to :)

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Allah will not change ur heart unless or until u wont like it to change urself.
n maybe Allah loves ur husband more than u and on his dua HE will change ur heart.

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Sorry it doesnt make sense. Anyway we clearly hold to two very different mindset towards the subject. So Kapeesh.

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MASHALLAH MUNNI that is very nice of you! :) i had no idea you wore a scarf.

Yeah i know that and i am glad about your answer too.

Mashallah that is really nice to know midnighteyes:) .. May Allah bless you always. Ameen.

Yesh, fazeelat has a great point here! :)

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Aisha, but I dont wear it for religious reasons. I just like to wear it. smack

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oh ok… well whatever rreason might be.. it is still good to know!:slight_smile: …

it is a good accessory:halo:

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The kind of husband I have, has never forced me to do anything. So I don't think he would force me to wear a scarf or abaya. Personally, I understand the farz part of it, so perhaps if I were encouraged I would go for it. I don't think we function well with "forcing."

However, I know a close friend. She did not cover her head before marriage, got married and her husband requested her to cover her head. She did it because she liked the way he requested it, and also because she herself was inclined toward it, just needed a push. They have talked about abaya, but she still hasn't worn it as she is uncomfortable.

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some girls do wear it for fashion i mean the whole point of the scraf/hijab is to cover urself buh some women just have it done it done in a werid bun like thing i dun know it seems werid like wats the point of wearing it alt all

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yea i knnow..mostly arabs here in dubai.. i feel so strange when seeing them .. they have only only their hair covered their whole face and neck is showing and cleavage and they are wearing tight tight clothes and hanging with guys and french kissing in front of others in uni... it ticks me off!

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lol! that's funny. here it's mainly pakistani girls that have taken up that trend.

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really? wow so meaning arab girls are more decent in london?? whats up with paki chicks?:hmmm:

Aunties acting like teen girls........
Aunties acting like teen girls........
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when Im married, I would respect the views, likes and dislikes of my spouse, and follow them as much as I can.

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That is nice to know mirage:)

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im already wearing abaya n niqab :)

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marwa that is nice to know!:) mashallah...

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i dont think the person im marrying will ever say this to me..that wear hijab and niqab..and i wouldnt marry someone who would say that to me anywayzz..cause im not gonna do it..its my choice..nobody else's and if he even mention it im gonna say flat out NO!..i have my values and beliefs that i follow and that is enough for me..i do not need to become a maulvin and nor am i interested nor does the society or enviornment i live in demand this..

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well im not gonna lie i only wore it when i was in peshawer just becoz everyones wear it but i wont wear it if im being forced

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Unfortunately I would prolly never do it despite of the fact that it's required by religion.

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I already wear Abaya and Hijab. I am sure my future hubby would not ask me to leave it.