In my case I took big dupatta to cover myself like ammi aur all ladies in the family, like my MIL wore burqa and my 3 SIL's too but the lat one took scarf only, so after engagement MIL told my mom she has to wear burqa after marriage. After marriage I do, but this is by pressure not by my will. My hubby then told me what ever u like u do by your will so I take scarf only.