I wear it.. both the Hijab as well as the abaya,.. I wanted to do it and i did...nobody can stop me from not doing it..:)
Now, if somebody i married tells me to remove it.. i will Kill him...:)..i hope, insha-allah i get somebody who doesnt restrict me from such things....:)
I think doing this(wearing hijab,abaya) and such should not be forced by anybody because its Allah(swt) wish and command that we all follow... not by others... If you feel that you should, then do it.. else dont as its just a decision which you wont be happy with.