All I did was sex

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I am so depressed. I feel like crying. I do not know what I did wrong!

I got married to a Saudi guy. We were in Riyadh. Very happy. The marriage contract had been signed but there was still time for me to go to his house and become his wife in front of the eyes of the world.

One day he came to my house but my papa and mama did not know. I sneaked him to my room. He always used to come and we used to do hanky panky.

That day I thought let me take it up a notch. He is my husband legally and I love him. That day I lost control. We had sex. After that I had this bad feeling. He left.

2 weeks no contact from him. I was crying. I called him but he would not pick up. Not replying to my text messages. After that one day my papa comes to me and tells me what happened wrong? I ask him why? He said there are Divorce papers here for you. Ya ALLAH! Why!

What I did wrong?

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Oh the Drama!

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What drama?

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OMG i feel so bad for you, dont know what to say. You didnt do anything wrong, you were married to him, you just did it with your legal husband.

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thats y people say Saudis are not dependable :hmmm:

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You have several options sister

1) Do Not loose hope please be patient
2)Contact his parents
3)Threaten him with suicide
4)Hunt him down and kill him
5)kidnap him
6)Tell him that you are his to be child's mother
7)Marry his best friend
8)If nothing works you can beat him

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Tell me about it. I am so depressed now.

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I know right! Does not seem real :hehe:

and I bet it’s a GUY posting as a girl :cb:

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ofcourse u didnt do wrong...if he left u after fulfilling his desire,then he will be answerable for that..wat u did was islamically rite :(

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*WTH??? *

I wish u the best, and iA' u will find good guy for youself soon!!

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really??? :O..how can u say that ??:hmmm:

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NJMasti, can you please provide your insight on to the matter instead of speculation.

Neha, I know right.

In Memory of the Fallen
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a girl would be more broken hearted.. and go into details of how she first met and all that

and not straight up say I did the deed :cb:

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:bummer:

:confused:

:naraz:

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my goodeness this is pretty serious girl
well at the time u were married to him and so legally /islamicly u did nothing wrong i guess
and as u know men can be idiots its nothing to do with being a Saudi
but still i think you should have seen it comming
often when we love someone we do not see the bad things/weaknesses of each others.

i mean its not a little mistake he did make its a huge blunder and act of selfishnes that he committed and u should have seen it comming i think.

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Gaia, thank you. Inshallah god willing.

Aarzoo, I am a decent girl who is heart broken. I cannot do that.

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Bholisosurat aankhon main masti

you should move on. Adopt some hobbies, go hunting, read books, play computer games etc.

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Do you know where he lives sister? Sorry that was a stupid question so yeah you can go to his house all drunk and start singing " tu mujhay kabul mein tujay kabul is baat ka Khuda gawah" or even "dil maira torh dia usnay buraa leon manu" sister do not forget some tears please.

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Hareem01 it is very hard because once you have sex with a person you get emotionally attached to the person. Now this person is no longer in my life. It is hard to move on.

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Bholi, if this is indeed a true case , then the husband truly sounds like a nutcase . If he was a true gentleman, he would have spoken to you quite seriously about the way he felt about the incident that night, before taking such a drastic step.

Did your parents know you two were nikkahfied? coz you said he used to sneak into the house ! Just a question...