Why do people frown at age in our culture if the girl is older than guy?
I.e. generally why does the women apparently have to be younger? 
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because as politically incorrect as it sounds, women run out of child producing age sooner than guys, so its better for them to start early.
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Chalo jee, you arent supposed to give the right answer at the begninging of the thread, you’re supposed to let people argue first and then give the answer. 
Thread killer 
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1) Because the man is supposed to be the protector, dominant party, head of household etc. And that usually correlates with being older. Although it's not necessary.
2) Also parents prefer their daughters to be much younger because women age faster. Well, a younger woman will supposedly have an easier time keeping her older husband still interested in her. If he loses interest, then you know what happens.
3) Females themselves most often tend to like males older in age. Again, not everyone feels that way.
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Its frowned upon but over the past two years I know of two girls that married younger guys, both brides were gorgeous, so I don't know if that had anything to do with it....but both were 2-3 years older and their men look very pleased with who they got, not threatened by them looking older either as the girls do look quiet young, you wouldn't know the girls were older virtue of just looking at them. age is just a number you need mind chemistry and as long as you present as you are compatible with each other ALL IS WELL. :)
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That probably had everything to do with it 
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My fiance is a year younger then me. Once someone said to me by the time he's 30 and your 31, you'll look like his mother. That broke my heart a little, but then I fixed it by putting on some red lipstick :)
Woman do age faster, but I don't think something like age should be a factor in turning down a good proposal.
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Once someone said to me by the time he's 30 and your 31, you'll look like his mother.
Lol. That's what my mum tells me when I argue an older bride is not so bad. But then again there are some women who look quite young for their age, it isn't always that way. And then there are women who maintain themselves and women (typically Pakistani) who just let themselves go after marriage, so that might be a contributing factor to the idea that women age faster.
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because as politically incorrect as it sounds, women run out of child producing age sooner than guys, so its better for them to start early.
Well fertility in women begins to slowly decline in the late 20s, beginning a more rapid decline around age 35.
so unless and until you are marrying someone is her late 30's - this shouldn't be an issue
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Just to write something and making my contribution to killing a dead! 
Given the current trend of marrying late, if a guy marries close to 30, she is over 30.
If they have a child in two years as again current sillly standard says, then she has a child at 33 to be minimum.
She has second child at 35 to give minimum age gap.
She had aged 35.
Doctors get worried if she wants any more pregnancies.
She either takes chances or has to get genetic testing for a third child or fourth child if couple wish.
If not they better be done after two children.
OK,
The problem continues.
Man is 39, she is 40+.
Soon she has emotional problems, while children are still young. Periodic short temper issues.
Niether husband nor wife can relate to growing children. If man was older, still younger woman could play with children, if she is also a stay home mom. Goes to their activites etc.
(Authority or religious issue is not even discussed here)
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wow, diwana.. this should count as your magnum opus in misogyny.. well done, pal.
they say, a persons ideas on parenting come most from their own childhood experiences.. 
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Misogyny?
Read about perimenopausal symptoms.
Growing children do need full attention. Off course pills can help alleviate some problems but not all.
It is preferable that both parents be young to help grow children but if not then at least the mother.
Adding to what is said above,
…I am aware of people making claims of no big difference as being older versus younger parents, but those who have had younger parents feel much closer to parents and parenting demand is better met by younger parents. Just common sense.
Older parents may have less energy, less connecton with children. They have less time to enjoy grand kids and have to work longer to get their children go through college/marriage issues.
Let’s see, they invest in life insurance, retirement or health issues of themselves OR for the growing kids? Humm.
P.S. No need to be personal.
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lol@perimenopausal symptoms. how long does perimenopause last, pal? that was pretty lame even for you. not to make it personal but do explain where exactly have you had issues with perimenopausal women? most people don't even notice this stuff, but somehow this is your big reason?
younger parents older parents - there are no easy generalizations. younger couples are typically less stable financially and emotionally. this whole "much closer to younger parents" is bull. age isn't even a primary factor in this.
marrying a younger woman is great if you are someone hung up on patriarchal issues - want your wife to be obedient to you, subservient to your parents, not know as much about the world as you, someone you can coach and mentor into being your number 2. like you said, someone to stay at home and play with your kids. and there is nothing wrong with wanting such a wife, most people with your background want just that.
if you want someone who is an equal partner in a fulfilling marriage, you wouldn't start off with, oh.. i wonder if she will have energy to play with grandkids. you ain't fooling no one but yourself with reasons like that.
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lol@peri menopausal symptoms. how long does perimenopause last, pal? that was pretty lame even for you. not to make it personal but do explain where exactly have you had issues with perimenopausal women? most people don't even notice this stuff, but somehow this is your big reason?
*You failed to read my post. *
*I never made it the big reason. 'One of the reasons'. *
People may not notice so what. Women themselves do and have growng kids to deal with at the same time.
Come on if this was the reason you thought I was mysogynist lol, then either you have no idea of women biology/psychie or just made a comment in vain just to say something.
Like I said, read. It might help you.
younger parents older parents - there are no easy generalizations. younger couples are typically less stable financially and emotionally. this whole "much closer to younger parents" is bull. age isn't even a primary factor in this.
*Even if they are less stable financially at younger age, at least they have kids growing by the time they have worked for lets say next 10 or 15 years and slowly but surely have put aside enough money for their children needs in future. Make an appointment with a financial advisor and fake you have two kids, what is the best way to ensure their good college education, your needs when retire etc. *
You will be amazed how that works. Unless off course you plan to live in different ...........nevermind.
marrying a younger woman is great if you are someone hung up on patriarchal issues - want your wife to be obedient to you, subservient to your parents, not know as much about the world as you, someone you can coach and mentor into being your number 2. like you said, someone to stay at home and play with your kids. and there is nothing wrong with wanting such a wife, most people with your background want just that.
*Complete and utter nonsense and generalization. *
*Care to show anywhere I said anything close to what you said? I proved with medical science, simple math and financial sensibilty my points. *
*How about you do the same! *;)
if you want someone who is an equal partner in a fulfilling marriage, you wouldn't start off with, oh.. i wonder if she will have energy to play with grandkids.
Off course. Preferably both should be young or if not then at least the women who in every society are expected to and actually do spend more times with kids. Try refuting it. You wont be able to. if nothing else do the simple math!
you ain't fooling no one but yourself with reasons like that.
*Never claimed to fool anyone. One can help oneself. *
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Because young girls are supple, taut and extremely flexible!
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Queerio - thank you :k:
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Ohh come on our profet(SAWS) was 25 when he got married for the first time and his wife was 40!!! and they got a lot of kids I think it was 4 girls and 2 sons and so far I know none of them was handicapped!
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Exactly bride2012! I was going to say the same thing.
I think its all cods-wallop. Thats the word I am going to use.
Women age faster?? thas a load of lies! I know lots men - who look old before their time - in their 20s and no hair, and wrinkles. Whats that all about??? Look like they are 50 when they are infact 26.
Maybe having children and running around - would accelarate the age process - but I know some women - who have kids and look like - what kids?? kids? I had kids? My neighbour - who is asain being one example.
I think its up to the person - on what he/she wants - you wouldn’t catch me wanting to marry a uncle Geeee though! hehe. 
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No real answer, except anecdotal/out of norm examples. Anyone can give opposite and lots of examples.
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Agreed, complete nonsense