Re: Age Differences
What does a 40 year old man need to do really? Just prove he makes enough money to afford your Bunto Kazmi joras, and he’s in consideration. Maybe if he’s got a big fat wart on his face, that may deter some gold diggers, but there WILL be a woman who is willing to put that aside in exchange for security and ability to have kids.
And as long as there are families that are OK with the 10 year difference, these marriages will happen.
I shouldn’t even be talking, the guy I’m talking to is 7 years older. Why? Because he is a good person. If I could find someone just as good who is younger, I’d go for it, but it’s not in my naseeb I guess, so I am willing to settle.
A guy on the other hand, if faced with a nice girl who is his own age, may not be willing to settle. He may want to keep looking, because he knows that as long as he makes money and doesn’t smell like feet, he’ll find a younger girl.
It’s that simple. And it’s unfortunate. If guys were more willing to marry women their own age, then we wouldn’t have 35 yr olds feeling doomed to lifelong isolation.
Yes, let’s all blame men. As usual. You yourself admit that marrying a man 7 years older is “settling”, and that if you found someone younger you’d go for it, yet you want guys to marry women their own age out of some kind of moral obligation.
