I know someone who is looking for a girl. He is like 36 I think. And his family wants a girl who is no more than 24.
That’s like MORE than a 10 year difference even.
Is this thought still prevalent in our society regarding huge age differences? Why do families do this? I was trying to point out older girls for the guy, but I was told it’s pointless, his mother is not ok with someone older. I was told 25 would be “pushing it”. 
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I dont Know
My Friends mother is Looking for a rishta
She’s 22 And they r Looking for Some1 Whose 30-32
She says k phir larka mature hota Hai n larki ke Nakhre Uthata Hai And samajta Hai 
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Hmm...
Well, you can always do what I did. Find a divorced old man, he wont think twice about leaving you, otherwise, he really will be SOL.
Hmm...
Well, you can always do what I did. Find a divorced old man, he wont think twice about leaving you, otherwise, he really will be SOL.
Hmm :D
No i'm just 20 now
later going 2 Marry some1 Whose a good religious man :@:
I'm going 2 expect just Love And honesty thats it And Larayan har jagah hoti Hain thats normal but Couple ko Pata hona chahi Hai how to Deal with it
Lekin thats Not a Reason to Marry a 10-12 Year older Person i think :@:
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Never liked huge age differences. I wouldn't want a guy more than 5 years older. I don't get 10+ year age differences. You are at totally different stages of your life and would not have a lot in common. My husband is the same age as me and I love it - the ONLY drawback....he was not set in his career when we married cuz he was still only a few years out of college.
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in old days, age difference was a non-issue but in today's time it's a big big issue...i think the difference should be no more than 5 years...the man should be older but NOT more than 5 years! :)
i must look for a 16 year old then! :D
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10 years Zyda difference naahi hai 
lekin 13 ya 15 saal ka diffrence zyda huta hai i have seen many couples…but main cheez understaing hai wo tu sunna hi huga..Age is just a number:wink:
12 zyda hu gaya hai 
2 Floor or nichey jayein 
Larka mature huta hai no doubt mager Ager un ki phir bhi nahi bani tuu 
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^hehe
Bane YA na bane yeh to Hai hi 
Lekin i dont Get k Itna Age difference Log prefer kyun Karte Hain
5-6 years se zada ho phir Couple nahi budha bachi wali cheez ho jati Hai:sadaf:
Of course kismat k Age koi cheez nahi hai but i Really dont prefer 5-6 years se zada Age difference
Of course a man Should be elder than his wife its a must lekin 10-15 Saal nahi :no:
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10 years is enough…13 pey tu mae bhi goli maar lun gi 
first of all girls zyda mature nahi huteen means app samjh jayein zyda likhun gi tu dahka per jaye ga 
ager dunu mae diffrence zyda na bhi hu tu koi farhk nahi perte or ager zayda hai tu ye bhi theek hai..jese dekhein ager girl ki age 22 hai or 31 ka boy hu tab bhi zyda diffrence nahi hai girls mature nahi huteen hain jab tak wo 26,28 ki naa hujayein… Abb aisa bhi nahi hai kuch huti bhi hain jinhey hum dadi amma kehtey hain:p…
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7 years max
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10 is the limit...I don't mind an age difference like that if its a good guy.
I know one couple...14 years...but you cannot tell!
Guys reproducing capabilities work till age 75, women are done by 55. That means that age difference of up to 20 is ok
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Wait why is it that the man MUST be older than his wife??
Are you gonna be one of those girls who won't let her son talk to girls his own age?
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Wait why is it that the man MUST be older than his wife??
Are you gonna be one of those girls who won't let her son talk to girls his own age?
because women age faster than men and also women's fertile years are limited which can cause problems in the marriage.
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From what I know that’s generally guy’s mom or sister hunting for a proposal. If a guy crosses 30, he should start looking for a partner on his own cause his family is going to be stuck at the age bracket of 22-24 for the girl.
My dad/mom’s generation, they would make a lot of age difference work somehow. I don’t have exact stats but I don’t see this formula working out anymore. Too many divorces with the same reason, they were not compatible together. Age isn’t just a number really. With a 10 years plus age difference, you haven’t even watched the same cartoons growing up so you do the maths.
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yup, its very much prevalent in our society. majority of the mothers want a “choti” larki for their sons. even if a son is 40 years he is considered JAWAN and they look for girls as young as 25-26 . they would not even give a second thought to girls who have crossed 28.. And the shocking part is that these 40 something guys even find the girls 15 years younger than them.
till the time girls families readily accept rishtas of older boys for their daughters the trend will continue.
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^ That's sad. These 40 year old "uncles" get girls that look more like their daughters than their wives! Heck my dad is just 6 years older than my mom and people used to ask her if it was her dad when they first got married! ha!
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Really? aap ke mun mein ghee shakker
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People are really picky because I think the whole premise behind mothers specifically looking for younger girls is that younger girls are more "adaptable" where as older girls have a lot of demands and are more "chalak"
I think if the couple have a love marriage with large age gaps then its okay because they explored each others personalities but huge gaps on purpose are bad news in my opinion.
My husband is 6 years older than me and we make fun each other for being born in a "different generation" (i was entering high school while he was graduating college kind of age gap) because he'll always refer to popular culture that I have never heard of and I'll mention things he has no clue about but that doesnt get in the way for us, the age gap is perfect for us still, it ultimately comes down to you as people and how you tackle life choices together not necessarily what tv show you prefer. In my experience at least that's more important, you have to be on the same page about lifestyle. Sometimes age plays a role in that, sometimes it doesn't.
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I’d say it’s supply and demand. If they want it and can realistically get it, then they’ll go for it.