Age and Commitment Phobia

[dutch_paki]

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@Sara516

^ Uhm, when ur main reason is to get away from your parents or to have sex or to have that party n pretty dresses?

I knwo I’m not ready now.. i’d tell you why but its to ppersonal

then you wouldnt tell me because its to personal. :k:

do you really think this is the main reason why girls aged atleast (for me personally a girl should be atleast 23 ) 23-30 or 35 reject guys?

I do know guys would reject for much less, but thats not on topic

[dutch_paki]

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@evilmastermind

The reason I know I am not ready is I am still stuck in gettin my education done...so once I get the degree then Ill know I am ready :D

A career takes many more years btw :p
but what if some girl reaches the age of 23 has a fine degree and still feels she s not ready. ( We have en example here at gs) . How will she know?

[Sara516]

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Dutchy the reasons I have for myself, they can be for any grl whos smart enough to figure otu, regardless of age, career/education level etc..

Also another reason they reject guys, maybe coz the guys are just reject material? :p Not good enough for em, etc..

[dutch_paki]

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@Sara516

Dutchy the reasons I have for myself, they can be for any grl whos smart enough to figure otu, regardless of age, career/education level etc..

Also another reason they reject guys, maybe coz the guys are just reject material? :p Not good enough for em, etc..

calling youself smart tisk tisk :p

This wasnt about rejecting. This was about being not ready :D
Personally I believe it is rejecting. But perhaps it has a different underlying reason?

[Sara516]

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Well a grl can deff be ready to get married but the guys who come just aren't good enough, so she has perfect reasn to reject.. :p

[dutch_paki]

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@Sara516

Well a grl can deff be ready to get married but the guys who come just aren’t good enough, so she has perfect reasn to reject..

cute

good enough is perhaps the wrong word. What about same wave length ?

but the topic was **Age and Commitment Phobia. **And where and how does MM’s reaction ‘not being ready’ fit in?

quoting: they want a perfect marriage and therefore wait for the moment when they are ready for it unquoted

[Sara516]

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Well, u'd hav to ask MM what she mean,t or to elaborate on her post :p

[dutch_paki]

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Yes you are right. I m gonna take hit the bunk now

been fun munna

Allah Hafiz

[Sara516]

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Bye, nice seein u here after so long :D

[WitchDr]

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@sweetpip

lets just put it another way...a girl knows when she's definately NOT ready!

let me just put it in another way as well ...a girl knows when she was definitely NOT ready!

[Sara516]

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^ u said the xact same thing

[WitchDr]

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Mine is in retrospect... ;)

[Browneyedbeauty]

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I cant talk on behalf of all other girls but i'm not ready for marriage because i still havent discovered myself yet. It takes 2 mature minds for marriage to work, i think there is a 'hole' in me to be filled and i know no matter how perfect he may be- he can not make me complete.

[musicmaniac]

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Originally posted by
dutch_paki
in between. how does a girl know she s ready?

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She will just know it when the time comes, her instinct or when ever she feels shes ready to share her life with a partner, when ever she feels shes mature to get into marriage.

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Originally quoted by
Mad scientist
How does waiting create a perfect marriage?
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Waiting as in being ready to have a marriage, coz if they aren’t ready to have a marriage obviously its gonna go down to earth.

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Originally quoted By
mad scientist
And if there are things she wants to do, why can't she do them with her husband's support? Surely the extra support would make things easier.
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Origianlly quoted by
Evilmastermind
and what gaurantees that husband will support fully?

Originally quoted by
** Dutch_paki**
there is never any quarantee in life. sometimes one just has to hope for the best n pray

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there ya go, this conv answers ur question

I give up, talking to u guys is like talking to a wall, bounces everything off u

[parissenoor]

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@Browneyedbeauty

I cant talk on behalf of all other girls but i’m not ready for marriage because i still havent discovered myself yet. It takes 2 mature minds for marriage to work, i think there is a ‘hole’ in me to be filled and i know no matter how perfect he may be- he can not make me complete.

I fully agree with you!
unlike you, now i know myself and that’s why i’m ready for marriage:blush:
but a few years back i could not think about spending a lot of time with a man…simply disgusting, boring…blah, blah:D…I had things in mind related to me…and things i had for dreams for myself…that i had to do by myself, and could not share with a man…if i had been married to someone, i would have been rude an danooying to him…just to get rid of him so that i could do my stuff alone…lol…it’s immature, but yeah i was…and immature person is NOT ready for marriage!

there is no set age to be ready for marriage…it just need maturity, and ability to commitment and shared life…as long as one is selfish…better to stear clear of marriage;)

ps, some people are NEVER ready…