Age and Commitment Phobia

Hiccup, I got married at the age of 23 and I can honestly say that I can’t imagine my life any other way. Having someone there who will support you, care for you and be your best friend is the best thing in the world.!

Age and Commitment Phobia

As per another post which has now been edited ( :mad: ) , is 26 too young to get married? What happened to living your youth and fulfilling your desires (in a halal way) that you can’t necessarily do with being married? Won’t you feel trapped and stifled in marriage? Isn’t 26 simply too young to get married?

Urgh, I tried editing/merging the threads and this is what happens. :smash:

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Any age is too young to get married if the person you are marrying isnt the one.

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^^ So true.

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It depends on the maturity of both people involved as well. So, I guess, as the saying goes, 'Age ain't nothing but a number'!

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I agree!!

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agree

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You agree that it's too young? I don't ... lekin LB is right. There is no point in getting married at any age if you are with the wrong person.

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I love single life.

  • Watch ESPN all day.

  • Cooking food is an adventure rather than punishment.

  • Watch Cricket all day. :bobo:

  • You can show your girlfriend where you actually live.

  • You can save like BILLION DOLLARS in groceries

  • No In-laws. :dhimpak:

  • Watch Cricket all day…:rotato:

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^ dream on.

single life is only good to a certain extent.
At one stage we all need a person who makes it complete.
thats where the true challenge starts.

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may be LB you are right but as you mentioned earlier ... until one is ready...

So far Single life zindabad.

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I think marriage is sweet, especially when you find the 'one'. If you get on, you can walk life together and do all the things you've ever wanted to. What a beautiful and pure rishta.....

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I LOVE single life

I do what I want to do

I go around where I want to go around

I spend as I want to spend

I watch what I want to watch

I hate the thought of being house wife!

I study, I make good money and then travel around the world :smokin:

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you can do all this and MORE even after you are married :clown: and the best part, you have someon to share all this with..

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The discussion so far is very individual centric while marriage is all about family and often families. In my opinion it is hard to define a good age for marriage, for reasons of individual maturity, family preferences, financial situation, availability of a good partner etc. that differ in every case.

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A friend of mine told me once that marriage is just a license to have s*x. I'm still debating if he was rite or not.

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Agree ther with you brother!!! However, single life only feels lonely when There are no good games on ESPN, Pakistan cricket team loses, there isn’t a girlfriend to begin with, you have an ocean of money while a few dollars is enough to get by, in-laws won’t bother you, Pakistan loses again. Woh kia shair hie,

Waqt sari zindagi main do hi guzrey hain kathin
Ik teray aney seh pehley, ik teray janey keh baad

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^ I thought that was an indian song :clown:

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LOL what an imbecile friend u have.

There is no absolute age for when ur ready for marriage. As it has already it depends on ur personal readiness. Are u really ready to take on the responsibility that a marriage is. Some ppl are ready in a young age and others need time, even if they have already found a perfect partner. The thought of marriage scares alot of ppl. I cudnt imagine a more better life then to be married to a girl that just makes u whole. Life wud be heaven on earth.

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^i agree, there's no right or wrong age. do it when you are ready and to the right person.