Re: agar beta chahiye to…
Maza to jaab aaey jab agley ka kaleja jalooa by telling them that their son doesn’t have it in him to bear a son! Maybe they should have their son checked out? Who knows if he’s got some type of bemaari … ? I mean, who knows? You know… 
I do make it a point, when the topic comes up in my social circles, to bring across the fact that it’s the man who is responsible for a boy or a girl being born.