Re: After Shadi
^ And what if before engagement the person used to wear the clothes according to ISlamic rules, but after marriage becomes careless because her mother is no more there to ensure that ?
So this scenario is where the girl only dresses modestly out of a sense of duty to her mother, not out of belief that Islam requires it?
This is why you should check what your spouse believes before you marry them!
Personally, I don't believe in telling others how to dress because your niyat for modest dress should be to please God and not to please other people. I think that wehenever I get married, I wouldn't tell my wife how to dress (unless she dressed so immodestly as to embarrass me..... but I've met hardly any Pakistani girl who dress that badly).