After Engagement...

[Lusi]

Re: After Engagement…

@Maham S

well its quite simple…when he is my fiance than he should act that not my husband. Otherwise why there would be these two distinctions; fiance and husband? Also, when i say that i dont mean i shouldnt be consulting him before making any decision that may affect our future life 2gether as in continuing education, starting up with a career, etc. Ofcourse these things should be discussed between the two or if i am not in contact with him than between the two families.

What i am against is when the couple is asking each other every damn day that “oh so what did you eat today? how many botis you had :halo:” or " i am going to x, y, z’s party should i wear red or black?" or " i wanna go to switzerland for honeymoon n u better make me stay at a 5-star hotel or i wl run away lol" or "i am scared of havin kids (rather suggesting something else)"…stuff like that…it starts from stupid questions to quite odd ones. Or so i feel but if you guys have other pov than thats ok too :). I just wanted to know how many felt the way i do or if any1 at this time and age feel the way i do lol…i am pretty much aware that majority perhaps thinks otherwise.

That is not stupid, this is something both should talk before marriage if they have concerns then getting divorce on this children issue after marriage.
I have never seen ppl asking how many botis they ate but all the other stuff is not stupid, that is something they both have to live with in future and if it is considered stupid after engagement then it will be considered stupid even after marriage.