After engagement, whats the concept of taking SHAB-E-RAAT?

[anya]

@DaffyDuck

Okay, like eid ive heard that people take SHAB-E-RAAT as well to the in-laws side. I want to know did any one send it or receive it? What items were included? Do only girls-side or even the boys-side take it too?

hain?? this night is not about stressing over your in-laws