Re: affair
When did I say it wasn't the spouses decision to decide about their marriage? I said it would be better to inform an adult since its her cousin she's talking about.
It's funny how I'm still a bachi but I give better advice than any 80 year old man on this forum. And if you're one of those people who have "slipped" and repented than good for you. I'm glad things worked out for you.