girlie1
February 5, 2010, 9:18pm
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Girlie…have you tried getting your parents to invite his mom over to your home? So that the two families can meet (not necessarily for rishta purposes)…but just to get to know each other? This will allow you to get to know his mom better and could also help you decide (after observing her behavior) if you still want to pursue this relationship.
Also, can your boyfriend try to convince his ammi to get to meet your parents? I’ve asked this before and I don’t think you gave an answer (or perhaps I don’t remember it).
About this plan that you’ve suggested above^. Do you mean that you and your BF are going to tell your parents that …“We have separated from each other”…and then you BOTH are going to do some acting (moping around…being sad…looking depressed…bhook hartaal…no eating…no sleeping…dark circles around the eyes)…And then parents will get sooooooooo upset as they do in the movies…and then they’ll surrender to your wishes.
^Is that the plan? Tends to work in Bollywood. You can try it. It’s manipulative. And many parents can’t BEAR the sight of their child withering away…and just might put the ego to the side and give their blessings for union. I dunno…could work…may not. If it does work…his mom STILL might not be crazy about you.
Redvelvet,his mom is a very stubborn type,so i don’t it’s going to work if my parents invite her over to our home.And my parents aren’t willing to hear anything,because they say,since his mom doesn’t agree,so they too can’t do it.