Re: advise needed on my husbands mentality
Just read that you work also. (This was not clear in post 1.)
This changes the entire equation. If BOTH of you are working, the household chores should be shared. You are not even expecting that. You just expected him to clean up the mess he created while you were sick.
It is sad he is so insensitive. I think he needs to straighten up his act. Much respect to you for putting up with his crap. Hope things get better.