Re: advise needed on my husbands mentality
The example that my dad set for me. Of a man providing for his family no matter what the circumstances, through thick and thin, even if he went unappreciated for it, of ensuring his family’s welfare at any cost, of overlooking his needs for his family, Of making sure his children got the kind of education he couldn’t afford. Of being in charge of his family. He couldn’t have done any of that without a caring, supporting wife, someone who knew her role. And that right there is equality for you.
I don’t recall him ever working around the house, or helping my mom. He is a tough guy, but the only time I saw him shedding a tear was when my mom’s test reports were far from ideal. Love doesn’t need to be expressed verbally, or with the overly corny surprises you can see in another thread. Actions speak louder than words.
So I don’t know what is the point you are trying to make here.