advise needed on my husbands mentality

[thedoer]

@heart_n_soul

Personally I don’t think cleaning is the issue. I think u both have deeper underlying issues that your both not confronting. Either get that sorted or move on!! I did when same issue happend to me. Petty **** (stuff that in loving relationships wouldn’t normally matter) kept happening because we had much bigger issues that either I acceepted and lived with for the rest of my life or I moved on. Good luck in confronting and dealing with those issues.

Maybe you are right but that doesn’t mean that we have to live in a mess