advise needed on my husbands mentality

[thedoer]

@Spiral

I am sorry but my reply probably wouldn’t help you but in my 4 years of marriage my husband has never ever cleaned, cooked or did any house work at all. I clean after him, bathroom, kitchen, even dinning table where he leaves his dirty plates. I used to complain but not anymore, I keep my house clean, he doesn’t. Doesn’t even care if it’s clean or dirty. I love my husband despite all of our differences and now I don’t ask him to do any house work. I know he doesn’t like doing it, he doesn’t want to do it. He is a great husband who despite of being very very sick, hardly can get out of bed, goes to work everyday… if he does it, I can too. I don’t ask him to do things he doesn’t like doing, he doesn’t ask me to do things I don’t like doing. We work as a team. I know my reply doesn’t solve your problem but still…

My husband isn’t like yours so that wouldn’t work for us