hey all i have been posting a lot of issues and mashallah they have helped me thanks every1:)..there is a very strange situation i am in these days,its just that since i have been back from a holiday which was a very amazing trip i dont feel good about things,i hav been trying to avoid hubby:( like just have single sentence convos wid him…and he talks n talks and i just dont know why i dun feel like talking much..i realise at times that i am wrong i get fine for a few hrs and am xtra sweet but suddenly dont know whts wrong i just become rude..like example he called me from work and i was like i cant talk im busy and he wa like whts wrong with you i was rude and said just let me be alone i need some space he was like okie huni i understand and i hung up things like these are happening all the time im worried as he hasnt done anything so wrong that i shud do dis but my mind is jjust acting strange also i cant sleep properly i stay up till 4am hav milk in sehri and just doze off and sharp 8 i am up and all day im busy with outlet and baby and a constant headace.i called mum in law she has said go to dubai on the 15th and come to london after that stay here for a few days and relax meet friends and u will be fine..but i dont even ans my friends calls i just dont feel like talking to any1 
and am always angry:( guys suggest me sumthing
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read teesra kalma a lot. it might help IA
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^ No, we are not complicated just because some men don't understand. Only the wise understand us.
Mehroze seems like it's depression. Perhaps you could talk to hubby and tell him how you're feeling lately. Maybe you and him could go away together for a weekend? Leave the baby with someone whom you trust/and wouldnt mind. My sister in law was quite depressed after she had a baby so my mom sent her away with my brother for a weekend and things seemed to have gotten better.
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sounds like depression. when did you have your baby? post natal depression?
go see your doc.
hmmmm i had a baby a year bak he is a year old mashallah
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just write down all the things that bothered you... like EVERYTHING - not necessarily about hubby.
Then try to focus on which one bugged you the most. I am sure, on your list there would be at least one big reason that you loose sleep over. Concentrate on finding a solution for that. Your hubby could possibly be a reason for that problem or may be you are just beating him up for no reason ...
we can help... but we need to know what bugged you the most before and after the trip. I know you said you had a good time. However, good time does not mean self satisfaction even if there are underlying issues. They are obviously bugging you.
Yep . Agree with your advice. :k:
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increase intake of B-complex (supplements) see a doc before taking any vitamins though..
and keep praying. Ayet-ul-Kursi, and yes teesra Kalma!
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I think its depression...post partum depression.
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it may be post partum depression?
Maybe read up about it and speak to your midwife/doctor?
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Sounds like u have PMS everyday, how horrible! May be something to do with your hormones or depression, probably depression. This can sometimes happen for no reason, and you don't even know u have it until u read up on the symptoms.
If u do have depression, it's up to u to decide if u want to treat it with pills (I would stay away from them personally) or other means.
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I often feel like this and I take it out on my Husband just because he is the nearest person to me. If I have a bad day at work and he calls me, I will take it out on him over the phone.
Firstly, you need to let your Husband know how you are feeling and tell him that if you take things out on him or get angry at him, that you don't mean it and it's just down to hormones/depression. That way he won't get offended and will understand and try offer more support.
Then you need to do what a previous Guppie mentioned and make a list of everything that bothers you, no matter how miniscule.. Try and identify the things that irk you the most and why..
Finally, I would go and see the doctor. If you're not to keen on pills, ask him/her to recommend you some herbal alternatives..
And as others have suggested, try and read Aytul-Kursi first/last thing morning/night and the 3rd Kalimah...
I hope you feel better really soon Huni..