Re: advice...
u hav to understand something here that if u get food 3X a day, shelter, clothing n education ur basic needs r met n parent's fard is done. rest toys n games n money is all privelidge n not ur right. u should be grateful to ur parents for things they provide u, not argue abt wat u r not getting. count ur blessings. ur parents might hav flaws but still better than thousands of parents. read abt moms that throw their kids in garbage bins or dads who leave family to marry someone else, read abt parents who drink n gamble n abuse kids for no reason.
don't take things for granted. its not ur money. its ur parent's money n its their righteous choice to giv it who-ever they chose to giv.
One more thing if ur parents take care of their families after fulfulling their basic needs they will be awarded by Allah but a daughter who dis-respects her mom n answers back hav no rewards in Allah's eyes. Also life pays back today u r being ungrateful to ur mom tomorrow ur kids will do same to u. its called Karma
If ur mom doesn't ask u"how was ur day...u ate or not" may be she's not very verbal kinda person. Do u ever ask her" Mom how was ur day or u need any help" etc. If u come close to her without expectations ur bond might be stron
Too much expectations destroy relationships