Re: Advice to all men before marriage
Nobody is complaining about getting married. What men like me are complaining about is the sytem is tilted in favour of women, even if she is the guilty party in the marriage its always the man that is penalised. Divorce laws in the West are destroying the institution of marriage....many people now rather live as partners without getting married. You get everything about of the marriage without lot of the negative points. Its not really an option for us Pakistani men, due to cultural reasons and religious reasons. However I would rather have a girlfriend or not get married as opposed to marrying the wrong person. I know there is no guarantee in life...but we must do our best to satisfy ourselves that we are campatiable with the person that we are marrying. It can make your life hell if you marry the wrong person. Men can be victims as well, I know it does not fit your perceptions but it is a reality.
The facts are that 1 in 3 or even 1 in 2 of marriages in someplaces end in divorce. In the past we have been cushioned from this due to our cultural values, but nowadays our mentality is becoming more westernised and is not surprising if the divorces also increase and become more in line with the western averages.