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^ ovulation cycle needs to be paired with the morning after pill JUST in case. if she will be on her period when she is next with her husband (which i think she mentioned) she will be VERY close to ovulating in the days post shadi. in fact within three four days she WILL be prime for pregnancy
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That's IF she knows when she is ovulating. Not everyone ovulated in the middle of their cycle.
Seriously man... Just double condom if u are so scared...
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The morning after pill is only meant to be for rare/exceptional circumstances.. How would it be practical if hubby wants sex the next day and all thru the honeymoon?
Some guys (esp newly married + excited ones lol) may not be too happy about having to use a condom.. esp he's asked on the spot like that.. I would have thought the 'regular' pill would be the best solution or contraceptive injection (can't remember the name of it) or something similar.. I can't imagine most guys in arranged marriages thinking v.seriously about birth control on their wedding night.. they prob just want to enjoy themselves..
Check out the NHS website for info on all the diff methods..
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The morning after pill is only meant to be for rare/exceptional circumstances.. How would it be practical if hubby wants sex the next day and all thru the honeymoon?
Some guys (esp newly married + excited ones lol) may not be too happy about having to use a condom.. esp he's asked on the spot like that.. I would have thought the 'regular' pill would be the best solution or contraceptive injection (can't remember the name of it) or something similar.. I can't imagine most guys in arranged marriages thinking v.seriously about birth control on their wedding night.. they prob just want to enjoy themselves..
Check out the NHS website for info on all the diff methods..
Some well made points there which the OP needs to consider. Also I would reitirate the point that consulting your GP is the best way to decide what you should do. If your doctor has suggested you start the pills straight away, then please do that rather than discussing the pros and cons and side effects of morning after pill which may or may not suit you.
Also with the contraceptive pill you could more or less control when you get your periods. But again you should really consult your doctor for information or the NHS website rather than lay people on forums where the responses can range anywhere from the really funny to the really strange....:)
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Some guys (esp newly married + excited ones lol) may not be too happy about having to use a condom.. esp he's asked on the spot like that... I can't imagine most guys in arranged marriages thinking v.seriously about birth control on their wedding night.. they prob just want to enjoy themselves..
Check out the NHS website for info on all the diff methods..
I am getting married in two months and I havent talked to him about birth control at all although we do talk and its not a totally arranged marraige. He never initiated the topic.I was automatically assuming he would definitely use a condom and it would be fine until we do decide to have a baby. Now I am scared what if he refuses to use a condom? Should I talk to him or wait for the wedding night? I dont want the hassle of a baby right away.
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you really want to have a discussion that heavy on your wedding night?? no, dude. talk to him now so you can start the pill asap if he's reluctant to wear a condom.
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All the experienced ladies please help Just wanted to know is it easy to manage both work and pregnancy. Especially if you are working in an environment where you are constantly in contact with dangerous chemicals and animals
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Ahem...I dont know. One of the teachers in med school on a class in contraception told that the wedding night is the best time to talk about such things. I mean come on we are both sensible adults, not teenagers overflowing with hormones on their wedding night :)
you really want to have a discussion that heavy on your wedding night?? no, dude. talk to him now so you can start the pill asap if he's reluctant to wear a condom.
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^ really? that sounds kind of shortsighted to me... and its not about overflowing with hormones- its about being prepared and knowing what to expect from the other person so that if you want to have intercourse on your wedding night, you are prepared for it. especially if you're having an arranged marriage and don't know the other person so well.