yeah Pyari theres a saying in Urdu that say when marrying a girl look at her mom but when marrying a guy look at his whole family.
coz incase1 if mom is good example to her daughter the daughter will likely to follow her footsteps and incase2 if all the guy's family r mean u can't accept that guy alone to b very different n then a girl has to deal with these relations thruout life n they can deeply affect ur relation with ur spouse.And it doesn't matter u live in same house or miles away whenever u meet them they make evey effort to make u realise wat a huge mistake u did marrying in those jerks.So always keep these point in mind while making the biggest ever decision of ur life
yes true u r very right, i have mentioned tht to him b4 we got into our arguement
^plz don't mention such things to him .these r for ur know how only n not to b discussed with husband to b at all
well i didnt say tht all directly. he was like its ok u r marrying me not my mom on the topic of his mom wanting to marry a pakistani born/raised girl i said as a girl i dnt only get married to u but ur family as well
sssoooooo…our moms talked and his mom has AGREED to come over to my house in paki!!! :coolios:im excited now! InshAllah everything goes well! please pray u guys! thank u 4 ur great advice!
Aw man... this just reminds me..when hubby and I got engaged my mom was SO CRAZY! we had like a gazillion and one fights over that one weekend (we were only together for htat time). most of which was that I seemed too eager, talking abt the wedding and date, in front of his parents and brothers, and of course y mom was horrified.. strangely enough my dad and uncle weren't so crazy abt it as she was. but now i realize why she may have felt that way. I mean my in laws are not like that at all, but its not like we dint know that at the time... she was just being protective...
Aw man... this just reminds me..when hubby and I got engaged my mom was SO CRAZY! we had like a gazillion and one fights over that one weekend (we were only together for htat time). most of which was that I seemed too eager, talking abt the wedding and date, in front of his parents and brothers, and of course y mom was horrified.. strangely enough my dad and uncle weren't so crazy abt it as she was. but now i realize why she may have felt that way. I mean my in laws are not like that at all, but its not like we dint know that at the time... she was just being protective...
Sorry ammi. :(
lol awww how cutee!!! yeah my mom went a little crazy when she found he proposed to me. shes just doing what a mother knows best to do