Things will work out Pyari. Always pray for what is best for you. Inshallah.
I never answered you about what happened with that guy. He did run after me for a little while but his parents never respected mine enough for me to move forward with him. Just because they were "larke vale" doesnt mean anything to me. If my mom and dad are not happy with a guy and they have valid reasons, I cant do it. And from what Ive read, your parents really love you. They sound like reasonable people and deserve a son-in-law who will respect them too, right?
The other thing is, you have to kind of set a standard. If boundaries get crossed once, it will keep happening in the future too. If the guy's mom feels she can go over your parents' head and get straight to you now, it will happen again. Best to nip it in the bud and help them understand you're someone's child too.
My suggestion is to have both parents talk to each other now. The sooner they begin talking, the easier it will be on both of you and you can rest easy.
aww, well im glad MashAllah u made the right choice! if u dnt mind me asking, is ur fiance from america or pakistan? i hope his mom is polite to my mom and respects my familys decision, otherwise its gonna work. his mother seems like a very demanding controling lady from how i have heard her speak to him on the phone.