Oh I forgot......if you plan to invite the guy's family over, then i suggest your mom call his mom and first of all **mention that she **knows that the guy's mom invited you first. Your mom can say, "My daughter has very good communication with me and she explained that you have invited her. As her parents, we would ALSO like to meet you and your family. We would like to invite you and your family over for lunch/dinner and that would be a great opportunity for the whole family to meet one another."
See what I mean? if your mom tells his mom that she is AWARE of the fact that his mom invited u first.......then it makes it appear as if the guy's family are the ones who are pursuing you.....instead of you chasing them. Whether you go to his house or they come to yours....u must have parents with you. BUT i prefer and believe that the guy and his family should come to the girls house with a proposal. That's just the way it's supposed to be done....rather than the girl's family coming after them.
PLUS.......it would be VERY INTERESTING to know how HIS MOM responds when your mom tells her that she KNOWS you had been invited by this aunty to come alone. The aunty's response to your mom might give an indication about her real character because right now, to be honest, she seems kinda shady and strange. IF the aunti LIES to your mom and says** "Oh i never invited your daughter to come alone. Your daughter must be confused, i had invited her and the whole family"**........then that is not a good sign. See, why it's important to have the parents involved?