Advice Needed

[bhenjee]

Re: Advice Needed

@Sara516

Bhenjee, if u keep passing on completely wrong information, you're just as bad, if not worse, than someone whose marrying their bf/gf. Again, give proof of what you're saying. Nobody I know has heard of this bullsh theory that your nikkah is invalid or your babies are "haram" you've come up with, and it is really bad to give out false information. "I heard it from ammi/aunty" is not a good excuse, get that through your head. And before any idiots start jumping in and assuming things, it has nothing to do with ones own personal life but rather how shamelessly you're spreading false information.

ok ladies n gentlemen...
calm down please. everyone's goin off on a tangent and gettin overtly defensive over this topic.
unfortunately, im not an islamic scholar and like i stated earlier, the person i have turned to for reference, hasnt gotten back to me as of now
and SO, i ask for ALLAH'S forgiveness over anything that i may have stated WRONG
however,
quoting u sara516, u shudnt be pointing no fingers at me or be scrutinizing my personality
i did NOT in any of my posts call nobody a devil or adamantly shine myself a saint.
hence, no need to get defensive, OR offensive
all of us hold our own relationships with Allah and are responsible for our own actions.
nothing that I state with or without proof (hadith, ayaahs) can alter another's faith without their OWN CONVICTION and so i reiterate,

please do not get personal and offensive... it just about accentuates ur insecurities!!
jazak Allah