Re: Advice Needed
well ive seen it/heard it/been told of it many times in Islamic lectures... even on tv (aalim online ) n the works
n phat balongri, please dont read what i wrote in the wrong context Allah has made marriage halal , and ASTAGHFIRULLAH i did not say anything to negate it if a person doesn't know any of this and gets physical with a person he later intends to marry, as a Muslim, id ask for Allah's forgiveness but for those who know this, should refrain from it. Allah has made marriage halal and hence any physical relationships prior to that are NOT halal you are totally NOT allowed to sleep around with ur girlfriends/fiancee's in Islam.
** my implication was simply, that once u get physical with a person (knowing all of this) Allah renders that person haraam on you. as in, islam FORBIDS u to do nikaah with that person ** For all of us who did not have prior knowledge of this can always beg for Allah's forgiveness
I agree with the first part of your post that we should try not to have pre-marital relationships and that is def haram but the bold part is bogus.
Like I said get your basis straight before you pass on the info cuz if(and I am pretty sure it is) wrong info, you get gunah for it. You dont even know WHY you believe it and yet you insist on it. Please stop passing info on which you have no solid proof for. Thanks, may Allah guide us all.