Advice needed regarding Seductive travel agent...

[Saarim]

@PSquared

Salaam Everyone and Saarim “Sahab”!

X2, I am with you 1000%! There is more to this story then meets the eye.

If they have only spoken on the phone, there is no way it could have gotten this far. He cant be feeling guilty over phone conversations…right? What I mean is even I smile at the clerks in department stores…do I feel guilty about it? Absolutely not.

Saarim, you need to give us more information to give you a better answer/advice. Talk to your friend and see if the situation is more serious than it seems. I think it might be. In fact, Im convinced. I do not believe he has told you everything. There could be reasons for that too. He might be fighting an internal battle as to whether he should bury this forever or get it out in the open.

AND I raise my question again, what about the poor girl who was NOT misbehaving like Saarim’s friend? What about her feelings and her right to know if the man she is marrying is loyal and will be there with her forever? This is her entire life at stake and she hasn’t even done anything. I mean, she cant feel threatened everytime they go on vacation because he has a weakness for travel agents!

(BTW I havent met any cute desi travel agents, mine is an old desi uncle )

People think about it. Wouldnt YOU want to know if your fiancee was flirting and ogling someone else?

Especially days before the wedding…tsk tsk tsk.

Clerks at department stores? I don’t even know they had “clerks” at department stores. A clerk is found in your town’s municipal building.

If you’re going to walk around smiling in dept stores, only do so when shopping at Nordstrom. There at least you will match the Botox-induced smiles from the other shoppers.

And btw, anyone can see that you are simply looking to use my post to switch your old, aging, desi uncle travel agent, for a cuter, younger desi one, who will unfortunately for you, also turn out to be a member of SANGAT.