Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument

[Reha]

Re: Advice Needed on How To Handle Argument

@KhaZa1216

Thank you to everyone for the advice. I will definitely try to heed it. I can’t go and stay with my parents as they live about 5 hours away and it would be difficult to travel with my children right now.
I am trying to be more proactive, keeping on top of housework and managing okay for now I think.
I’m not sure that going out for a coffee or ice cream or a walk with husband is an option right now. He comes home late from work, he’s really busy right now, and he’s not really talking much to me anyways. We don’t even have small chit chat. Just one word answers and short questions like “Is the water hot?” “Any towels?” Etc. I don’t really know what to say to him actually. Suggesting some time alone might not go down well. He already said he doesn’t want any of that lovey dovey stuff. I think that might come under that definition for him. I think I’m just going to focus on the kids and house right now.
I just seem to annoy him. Maybe its best just to stay out of his way, I don’t know.

Focus on your kids and getting your life in order…husband isn’t going anywhere. Let him come to you and until he does…just go about your business and leave him alone. Don’t be hostile but don’t ask for anymore attention or favors from him or his family.