Re: Advice needed ASAP
KKF said that she should have said no to the marriage. He wasnt referring to the rape, and I agree, she should have said no to the marriage. She could have made up one of million other excuses that girls make to refuse a rishta, without having to divulge her secret. Now with 3 kids in the picture, its eating her up inside in more than one way.
That said, it is true that everyone has their own way of dealing with difficult events, specially one as rape. If I found out about someone’s morbid actions 30 years after the act, it would still enrage me just as much as it would have 30 years ago. She should look for a way to get out of this marriage. Living with the horrible memories is bad enough. Living in a loveless marriage is only making things worse for her.