Hi Guys wonder if you can help me or even give advice;
I was married for 5yrs been separted for 3yrs my divorce as gone through, got hitched in pakistan, am from UK.
I will eventually get married again but the dilemma is wether to get hitched from paki agian or from UK. I dont know my folks are half n half lookin ere n in pakistan.
The guys whot u think about the girls from paki & from UK!
(i could do with a house wife more of a servant - only kiddin)
seriously its not easy in finding the right person but inshallah i pray & hope there is some1 out ther.
since ur looking... would u ever be interested in finding a girl who went through the same thing urself? a girl who was also divorced or is that a no go area?
putting the paki or western thing aside... how ready would be someone who has gone through a divorce be ready to marry someone in a similar situation?
since ur looking... would u ever be interested in finding a girl who went through the same thing urself? a girl who was also divorced or is that a no go area?
putting the paki or western thing aside... how ready would be someone who has gone through a divorce be ready to marry someone in a similar situation?
yes i dont mind if a girl has gone through the same as me then am ok with that atleast she would understand more.
I would love to say “it doesn’t matter where you select your partner from” but I would be lying. Just make sure whatever reason caused problems in your previous marriage are discussed before you go through it. You’ve gone through the divorce process once, and you don’t want to go down that road again.
First of all, have you figured out WHY your first marraige went south. Was the reason related to where she was from.If yes then try to see what you learnt from it all..How or what would you do differently to prevent it to happen to you again.Most often then not I think Mental incompatability is the reason for conflict that may lead to divorce.(considering there is no other major reasons like infidelity etc)
thx guys for your comments - i do mean it when i say i dont have a problem with divorcees atleast they have been through a simliar past & may be more understanding etc, Am not far from manchester so dont mind looking in this area. my prvs marriage just didnt work out long story. But i will be tryn inshallah even harder to make my nxt marriage work.
If a person that you like happens to be divorced, thats fine but I do not agree with the advice that you should make it your first condition/criteria. What non-sense.
don'T worry dude. it doesn't matter how many people tell this guy you have to get married to a divorce girl because you are a divorced guy yourself. paksitani parent salways look for the unblemished and pristine girls for their apple of their eye no matter how blemished the beta is himself.so they'll probably look for a young little virgin. aren'T you feeling better now.
ps. no offence starter of the post as i can not imply stomehting about you like how blemished you are since i do not know you and it is not my intention nor my desire.
was her being from pak/uk a part of the reason why u divorced?
things didnt work out she got indifinte stay found a job - n decided she wanted be independent and 1 day packed her bags n left, didnt give a monkeys about me or my family, luckly i dont have kids otherwise it would av been worse.
So hence me being confused wher to marry agian, i know not all girls turn out that way , but i know alot of people going through divrces, its kind of scary.
Muslim divorces are rising its bad newss:o
it is really hard to imagine a girl from pakistan walking out of her marriage because she wanted independence. they teach girls to be dependant on joint family in pakistan from birth.
it is really hard to imagine a girl from pakistan walking out of her marriage because she wanted independence. they teach girls to be dependant on joint family in pakistan from birth.
but wow. this girl must be uber- urban then
or maybe she just didn't like you guys.
she changed alot from the same village in paki, but would not listen to us or her family - her family here dont wana know her. i heard she works for morrisons in manchester and lives with strangers.
i trusted her alot but basically she broke alot of promises and a few pples hearts inc mine. anway thats history - gota look forward head inshallah
