Got married this weekend. Mashallah the event went good. I actually had fun during it but hated the photoshoots.
So any advice for my newly married self because my family didn’t even bother. Lmao. They think I’m too self sufficient which is the impression I give off.
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love or arranged , marriage first year can prove to be difficult as living with another person 24/7 is never easy. both husband and wife have differents ways of seeing life and daily activities so arguments do happen.
the best advice i got were:
-drop the ego with your spouse. dont take fights personally and also complain about a bad behaviousa few days after the arguments as the person would be calm and ready to listen
-never try to settle an issue with the inlaws by your self. Let the husband do it. he knows his parents and siblings so he will use appropriate manner to tackle them
-think positive about things and people. always put yourself in the spouse shoes and try to understand his reactions and actions.
-talk romance as much as you can. its fun and lovely and its very much needed for a married couple to stay happy. never withdraw romance from your life for longer than a day.
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Congratulations!
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Congratulations! Marriage is hard...whistle while you work it!
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congratulations!
the only thing that truly matters in a marriage is genuine respect and love for your spouse ... the rest is fluff.
you'll have ups, you'll have downs .... c'est la vie ... a positive attitude and a healthy dose of humor goes a long way in carrying you through hardship.
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husband+wife+compromises+respect+love = happy and prosperous married life...
Don't lose yourself. Be yourself. Focus on the big picture, the greater good for all. Ignore the small differences but be happy with choti kushiyaan. Make time for friends and family.
*advice from a single girl
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Never go to bed angry. And communicate, communicate, communicate.
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Communicate but don't nag.
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Forgive/move-on/let-go/compromise and communicate
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Congratulations Strangone!!! As far as advice goes, I will leave that on the married folks. :)
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Mash Allah I'm so happy for you Strangeone.....congratulations!!!
I'll read all the marriage advice from experienced married people here with you. I have no clue, I'm awesomely single.
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pehly do teen saal susral walon kay rang dhang adopt karlian... baqi ki zindaqi bohat achi guzray gi....
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I was going to say this one.. best advice I ever got..
Congrats StrangeOne! 
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marriage thread and no TLK? 
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like others said, never go to bed hungry. oh and pick the right husband.
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ok Aqua, we get it, you are single 
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@Sidra54 ??? Maybe not twist someone else's words to suit your judgement? What my status is no one's concern and neither did my comment imply what you are making it out to be.
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umm, I was joking. You should know me by now. I did not mean to imply anything. Goodbye dear :)
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^ I know I thought we were friends :/ so I was so surprised at your comment.