Advice for getting over my ex?

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Re: Advice for getting over my ex?

@Zara196

I’m a 19 year old girl from England and I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years but before that we were best friends for 3 years or so. He told me he liked me almost a year into our friendship but I was afraid we would mess things up if we got into a relationship and that way we would lose our friendship as well. Sadly enough that’s exactly what has happened. After 2 years together I fount out he was flirting with other girls. I broke it off with him straight away and he apologized to me saying he loved me and blaah blaah blaah but I was too angry and my pride was too much swallow. Its been over a year since then and I stopped all contact with him. Since then I’ve had plenty of guys who have been interested in me but I’m so cynical and skeptical of guys which I know isn’t fair to them. I know its time to let go off the past but for some reason I’m still holding onto it tightly. like a complete and utter fool…Any advice would be appreciated:sid:

Just because you are cautious now in moving forward with a committed relationship does not mean that you are clinging to your past. Dont be too hard on yourself.