that is a little shocking. but at the same time it is true that people are attracted to those who are similar to them. it’s completely natural. you know how people always say that couples start looking like each other after they’re married? i think unknowingly you become attracted to someone who looks similar to you and after you get married people begin to notice the similarity.
also, it’s very stupid of people to make rude comments just because your husband is darker than you. and the term “mr. halwa” sounds so cute! haha